This is not one of those blogs about 10 tips to mounting or 50 ways of wooing! This is a drill; an illogical Dating Drill(secrets). Before you continue reading this, make sure you have gone through our glossary so you can flow easily through all aspects of this super exciting, brain reformatting, life-impacting and men’s liberating blog.

Dating Secrets Glossary



For an effective comprehension and flow through this blog, here are terms used throughout this drill and their definitions. You are used to some of them ( but may mean different things to us). Others you might not be used to.

Dating Secret Introduction

Dating Secret : Introduction

To better understand this dating secret (drill) and it’s essence( showing men their true status right from creation), let me take you back in time. (Before you continue reading this, check out our glossary first. You would be glad you did)..

Man And His Balls At Creation

There came a day, God made man and placed him in charge of all he had created.

how to overcome shyness ( Social anxiety)

How To Overcome Shyness And Social Anxiety

Shyness or what some grammar folks call social anxiety stems from a host of reasons. The one that cuts across continents is upbringing/cultural background

how to overcome fear of fine girls

How to overcome the Fear of Fine Girls

Closely knitted with rejection by ladies, which we have dealt with here,  is the fear of fine girls. In this post, I want to take you by the hand and walk you through how to overcome the fear of fine girls

7 traits that attract women

7 Traits That Attract Women

Money, tall, dark, huge and handsome should top this 7 traits that attract women list, right? Very wrong! Attracting women goes way beyond these generally accepted wrong ideas. This is why a man can provide heaven and earth for his wife yet she is getting serviced by one dingy riff-raft out there. Most painful part? She is always tired when husby needs her. ‘I would rather cry in a Bugatti than ride on a bicycle with a  caring man, under the scorching sun!’. Have you heard them say this before?

Girls' Green Light Unraveled

Girls’ Green Light Unraveled

Girls’ Green Light unraveled!
Here lies the bane of  existence of all that is logical( men) from all that is illogical( girls). Girls’ green light is as old as the sun, as delicate/complex as the brain and as twisted as time.  How can a totally emotional being, that society frown at when they go expressive about their inordinate desires, pass on same to the opposite gender without the judgemental prying eyes of the world shone on her? How can she keep her dignity while telling a guy she wants him to ride her hard in public?  How can she say ‘I’m horny’ to a new guy without being seen as a lil slut? How can she ask a new guy, across the hall, out without actually asking him out? How can she screen out the average, weak and nice guys from the real men that are able to decode this secret language? She sends off her indecent probes in form of green light. To the guy that gets it, belongs the spoils. While the majority that do not, term her confused(girls don’t know what they want) and go home wondering why they have been friend-zoned. Oh poor nice guys! 

7 Mistakes guys make with ladies

7 Mistakes Guys make With Ladies

In life, even with lower animals, the male folks love to attract their female other half with different natural endowments, steps, swags, or sweet sways; the peacock would regale in its full bloom plumage as he takes calculated cocky steps to attract the peahen; the pigeon would spread out and dance while reeling out a sonorous sound to maim the mind of its pair; the canary would sing in a beautiful tone with a professional yodeling touch; all for to get her. But with Mr cock? The story is different. His counterpart does not fancy any of the aforementioned blending modes rather, a gut splitting adrenaline chase turns her on. Average men are not left behind. They would go to any length to get any lady they want. They would tell lies, spend and be spent, call morning, noon and night and generally be at her beck and call. Here-understated are the 7 mistakes guys make with ladies in trying to win their hearts.