Dating Secret : Introduction

Dating Secret Introduction

To better understand this dating secret (drill) and it’s essence( showing men their true status right from creation), let me take you back in time. (Before you continue reading this, check out our glossary first. You would be glad you did)..

Man And His Balls At Creation

There came a day, God made man and placed him in charge of all he had created. God even brought all created animals to him to put a final touch to them by giving them names. So it was that whatsoever Adam called them, stuck to them till date. He even had the privilege of naming Eve; Woman! However, Adam got so lonely after the morning hour’s fellowship with God. This was what lead to forming Eve. A help suitable, a companion.  And so they dwell joyfully with Adam feeding the family from the fruits and vegetables gathered and animals he killed. Until one fateful day, he let Eve that sole role and plunged the whole human race into great sufferings, lack, bondage, and disarray!
You would notice that when Eve was deceived and ate the fruit, nothing happened. Heaven did not move. But immediately Adam ate of it, heavens reacted. God was sore displeased, he came down furious! Such was the authority of man. He was made to hold sway and lead his family/relationship with the deft touch of a practiced professional.

How does this relate to d topic at hand?

Well, I needed you to appreciate the fact that right from creation, God placed man in charge. To direct the affairs of his home and take control because he knows that women can think so deeply, coolly and calmly, just that they end up thinking with their HEARTS instead of their HEADS

Now, here is the crux of the issue: never in the annals of the human earthly walk has man been so challenged for this God-given right by women than in this 21st century.  This is why this dating secret is here; to wake up the Men in-dwelling within boys. For like Nebuchadnezzar in the wildness, men have eaten too much grass off the hands of women. It is high time we realized and assume our sole right!

Moreover, by default, girls know that the man is meant to lead but like Jacob, they’ve been subtly stealing this control orb from men through various tests and demands and just like Esau, men have been falling unwittingly to this trap.
This is where these drills come in: to open the eyes of guys to the very essence for which we were born with Balls and stop selling ourselves short because of the high point in-between a woman’s thighs.

Sense pill 

The greatest conquest of all time is that of vClef! To be truly free, men must learn to live without it. For it is the greatest undoing of mankind second only to money.

Furthermore, we aim to demystify the world of women and let guys a glimpse into how their mind works. But before that, we would take you by the hands and wake up the sleeping confidence giant in you. Because what happens on your inside controls, to a great extent, what happens around you.  Having armed you with mannish aura and confidence, we would take a look at meeting new ladies, first call/chat( how to act, what to say etc). We would also discuss taking things to a passionate physical level; How to kiss, smooch and get down( Executive Members would have access to my naughty chat history, sleazy videos and a host of others). Thereafter, we will teach you how to keep the relationship going by maintaining the attraction, proposal, marriage, men’s health and a lot more!

On A Strong NOTE

Every post you are about to go through on this blog is to make you a better man in life generally and help you wife that lady of your dream. Some of you would become pro just by reading and applying what you learn from this drill. However, do realize that we are not here to turn you into some randy rascal (Players) whose singular idiosyncrasy is a penchant for the cleft between a woman’s thighs. There is more to life than sleeping with different ladies and breaking multiple hearts. Don’t make the mistake some of us made; some died in the process, others are battling with various degrees of ailment now while others are languishing in prison. A word, they say, is enough for the wise.



Having gotten that out of the way, let’s Build your confidence  

6 Comments on “Dating Secret : Introduction

  1. Ademola Dilemma : “I started dating this young beautiful girl few months back, I never pressured her for sex, but each time we were supposed to, I postpone, due to my religious beliefs, she recently got a job far away and didn’t let me know, later she developed cold attitude, so I stopped calling her. she’ll then call me which I didn’t pick up, but return the call days later, now she don’t call not send text and whenever I call her, she may respond well on the phone or disinterested, which I could only get to see her once in a month for just few hours, cos she stays with her parents, I tried to move on but discovered that I’m still madly in love with her, we’re to meet next week to talk about us, she’s my first girlfriend. I’m 27 she’s 21”

    My Reply:
    If you are not ready to go the whole Hog, don’t punch the sexy gas! That means you set yourself up for this situation by your deeds and ‘non’ deeds all along.

    Here are underlining facts from your post:

    1. It annoys them to the bone and tilts them over each time you warm them up and end up not doing the DO. You end up driving them into the waiting hands of these ravenous randy guys with a lil cash to throw around.
    Ladies love getting down much more than guys( I’ve personally proved that).

    2. She didn’t let you know she got a job because, in her dictionary, you didn’t deserve to know. ASK HER HOW SHE GOT THE JOB. And in her mind, your relationship ended a long time ago(if ever you had any). Don’t deceive yourself.

    3. She developed cold feet because another brother is weeding the forest you left fallow for a very long time now( that is me being totally blunt). Made worse if he has a lil dough. Maybe it’s the person that got her the job, no? Maybe her boss? She would, of course, be disinterested. Every other freaking reason she might cook up, any behaviour she puts up, hangs on this.

    4. I can bet my left balls on it that you feel you are madly in love because of how annoying this whole situation turned out. She is like an unaccomplished goal; they always leave a bad taste in your mouth. Hence you have been fighting to return things to normal and hopefully smash that huh?

    My Advise
    If you don’t like being a side guy, don’t strive too much. Let go for the more you try, the more resources, energy and time you would waste. The more you would keep losing your balls where she is.
    Get it, She is nOT your gurl friend. Wake up

  2. There’s this girl in my street I Just parked in, we used to greet normal as friends but I wanted to take serious with her but she was showing me some red light so I abandoned everything, I lost interest in her. She happens to attend the same church with me which make the whole thing difficult for me.
    She later started showing me some green light which I wasn’t interested.
    But now she doesn’t even greet and if I seldom greet her she answers it meanly.
    What was my offence?

    • You must know that you cannot take everything a lady does on a face value and the worse thing you can do is let those behavioral patterns scare you away. The red flags you talked about might have been her trying to test if you are man enough see through those childish baits and sweep her off.

      Love cant turn hate at the flip of the coin. You just proved her right: you were just coming for the nothing but vClef. She cant but bail

  3. okay, Haddon! I have been following your drills right from nairaland(200 level), this is the first time I’m commenting though. I must say, it really got me going. I was weak when it comes to girls and I paid dearly for it until I got to read your drills. currently I can’t say if I’m back where I started or not. I have just one girl I can boast of as my partner per se, I didn’t ask her out like you instructed.
    There is this other one I am crazy about, Your drills helped me get in touch with her and burst her brains. Problem is, I don’t know what changed, maybe I am not as interesting as I used to be or maybe its from her corner. She blamed it on her father’s death. we are still in touch, before he dad’s death, calling was mutual, now its one sided. I must say she lost interest a great deal. I hung on so it wouldn’t be that I left her when she needed a shoulder to cry on. that lead to me becoming attached and maybe in love. I cant really tell. we’ve been doing this one step forward one step backward movement for months now and its not getting me anywhere. There is always this girl you will meet and you feel like she’s the one. that was her for me. we haven’t had sex, but we kiss and smooch. I am not interested in bedding her, I just want her as a whole. I lost my balls along the line but I am a very stubborn person, I took it back lol. this girl needs attention a lot and I don’t give it as much as she wants. I even went as far as asking her out, even pleading with her. she just said she wasn’t ready. I am not getting anywhere with her and I am yet to find a solution to my dilemma. needless to say, there are other girls under my radar but this one is all I want. I am really confused, I must be sincere, I don’t think I will be faithful if she agrees to be exclusive with me, and I think she can sense that. I am really confused. what do I do?

  4. hi admin
    my girlfriend and I ve been dating for close to 3months now. we were together in the first one month. the love was okay then. but we are on long distance relationship now for the last two months. just recently, she has changed a bit. she no longer call like b4. I don’t seem to feel the love any more. thou I sent her a love text recently telling her how I love and missed her. but she replied telling me she loves me too and even more. but right now she keeps uploading guys pics and saying all those kinda loves shit and attachment of love emojis on them. she has been doing this for the past 3weeks now. always posting guys pics. I don’t know if she’s trying to make me jealous or something. am saying these cos there are times she do complain I ignore her chats on WhatsApp( like taking time to reply her). but I don’t tink that’s wat is making her behave this way. cos right now I can conclude she’s not investing much in the relationship as she use to.
    am thinking of dropping her or I should probably call her and ask her if she’s still serious with the rlstp or not whether she wants to roll with me or not.(if she says yes then I would warn her not to post those shits on her WhatsApp status anymore. if anyone should be doing that, then I should be the one, am the man. and I ve to decide and control what happens in the relationship) but my guys are telling me not to break. that I should just leave it at there and move on with my life

    what can you say about this.
    leave her hanging or break up with her or try to define the relationship again and know my stand. cos I don’t wanna waste my time

    • So you do need a soothsayer to tell you to wake up from this magnanimous ignorance? She has no regards for you whatsoever and is just toiling with your emotions. What stops you from posting hawt pictures of different gurls too? Two can play the game!

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